Ittekimasu & Itterasshai / Tadaima & Okaeri Meaning in Japanese Alternative

Hello, I’m Kodak.

 

Japanese homes often use two pairs of greetings:

When someone leaves:
The person leaving says 行ってきます (ittekimasu).
The person staying says 行ってらっしゃい (itterasshai).When that person returns:
The person returning says ただいま (tadaima).
The person welcoming them says おかえり / お帰りなさい (okaeri / okaerinasai).

 

English translations such as “I’m leaving,” “Take care,” “I’m home,” and “Welcome home” are useful, but they do not show the full Japanese image.

These four expressions create a small story:

行ってきます
I will go—and then come back.

行ってらっしゃい
Go safely, and come back.

ただいま
I have returned now.

おかえり
Welcome back to the place where you belong.

 

Kodak

Today’s expressions form two matching pairs:

行ってきます ⇔ 行ってらっしゃい
for departure

ただいま ⇔ おかえり
for return

The core image is not simply leaving and arriving. It is leaving a shared place with the expectation of returning to it.

 

Quick Meaning: Who Says Each Phrase?

SituationSpeakerJapaneseNatural English
LeavingPerson going out行ってきます
ittekimasu
I’m off / I’m leaving / See you later
Seeing them offPerson staying行ってらっしゃい
itterasshai
Take care / Have a good day / See you later
ReturningPerson coming backただいま
tadaima
I’m home / I’m back
Welcoming them backPerson already thereおかえり
okaeri
Welcome home / Welcome back

 

Learner
Do I need to memorize all four expressions together?
Kodak
Yes—that is the easiest way. Each phrase is part of a call-and-response exchange. Learning only one side is like learning “Thank you” without learning a natural reply.

 

What Does 行ってきます (Ittekimasu) Mean?

ってきます is said by the person who is leaving a home or another shared base and expects to return.

行ってきます (ittekimasu)
Natural English:
・I’m off.
・I’m leaving now.
・See you later.
・I’m going out and will be back.

 

学校に行ってきます。
Gakkō ni itte kimasu.
I’m off to school.

ちょっとコンビニに行ってきます。
Chotto konbini ni itte kimasu.
I’m just going to the convenience store. I’ll be back.

じゃあ、行ってきます!
Jā, ittekimasu!
Okay, I’m off!

 

The Literal Grammar of 行ってきます

行く (iku)
to go
↓ te-form
行って (itte)
go and…

来ます (kimasu)
come / will come

行ってきます
I will go and come back.

 

This is why 行ってきます is more than “I am going.” It contains an implied return to the speaker’s current shared place.

Learner
But if I am leaving now, why does the expression contain 来ます, “come”?
Kodak
Because the full movement is a round trip. You go away from this shared place, complete your activity, and then come back to it. The speaker mentally includes the return before leaving.

 

行ってきます vs 行きます

行きます (ikimasu)
I will go.
⇒ Describes movement to a destination.行ってきます (ittekimasu)
I will go and come back.
⇒ Describes a temporary departure from the current base.

明日、大阪に行きます。
Ashita, Ōsaka ni ikimasu.
I will go to Osaka tomorrow.

郵便局に行ってきます。
Yūbinkyoku ni itte kimasu.
I’m going to the post office and will be back.

行きます does not necessarily say anything about returning. 行ってきます presents the trip as temporary and connected to the place the speaker is leaving.

 

What Does 行ってらっしゃい (Itterasshai) Mean?

ってらっしゃい is the reply said by the person who remains behind.

行ってらっしゃい (itterasshai)
Natural English:
・Take care.
・Have a good day.
・See you later.
・Go safely and come back.

 

行ってきます。
Ittekimasu.
I’m off.

行ってらっしゃい。気をつけてね。
Itterasshai. Ki o tsukete ne.
Take care. Be safe.

 

Where Does 行ってらっしゃい Come From?

行ってらっしゃい is a shortened form of 行っていらっしゃい.

行って (itte)
go and…

いらっしゃい (irasshai)
honorific expression related to go / come / be

行っていらっしゃい
Go and come back / Go safely
↓ contraction
行ってらっしゃい

 

In this fixed greeting, translating each component mechanically is less useful than understanding its social role: the speaker sends the other person out with care and expects their return.

Learner
Is 行ってらっしゃい an order meaning “Go!”?
Kodak
Grammatically, いらっしゃい has a directive form, but the fixed farewell is not normally felt as a harsh command. It is a warm send-off, similar to “Take care” or “Have a good day.”

 

行ってらっしゃい vs 気をつけて

行ってらっしゃい
The standard response to someone leaving a shared base.
Core idea: Go and return.気をつけて
Be careful / Take care.
Core idea: Pay attention to your safety.

The two expressions are often combined:

行ってらっしゃい。気をつけてね。
Itterasshai. Ki o tsukete ne.
Have a good day. Take care.

 

What Does ただいま (Tadaima) Mean?

ただいま is said by the person who has returned to a home or shared place.

ただいま (tadaima)
Natural English:
・I’m home.
・I’m back.
・I’ve returned.

 

ただいま!
Tadaima!
I’m home!

ただいま。遅くなってごめん。
Tadaima. Osoku natte gomen.
I’m home. Sorry I’m late.

ただいま戻りました。
Tadaima modorimashita.
I have just returned.

 

Why Does ただいま Mean “I’m Home”?

The greeting is understood as a shortened form of ただいま帰りました.

ただいま / 只今 (tadaima)
just now / right now

帰りました (kaerimashita)
returned / came home

ただいま帰りました
I have just returned.
↓ the predictable verb is omitted
ただいま!
I’m home!

 

Learner
Does ただいま always mean “I’m home”?
Kodak
No. Its basic time meaning is “now,” “right now,” or “just now.” Only the situation tells you whether it is the return greeting.

 

The Other Meanings of ただいま

1. Right now / at present
ただいま準備中です。
We are currently preparing.2. Just now
ただいま帰りました。
I just returned.

3. Immediately / right away
ただいま参ります。
I’ll be there right away.

4. Return greeting
ただいま!
I’m home!

 

In the return greeting, ただいま is normally written in hiragana. The kanji spelling 只今 is common in formal signs and time expressions but less necessary for the warm household greeting.

 

What Does おかえり (Okaeri) Mean?

おかえり is the casual reply to someone who has returned. The fuller polite form is お帰りなさい (okaerinasai).

おかえり (okaeri)
⇒ Welcome home.
⇒ Welcome back.お帰りなさい (okaerinasai)
⇒ Welcome home / Welcome back. (fuller and more polite)

 

ただいま!
Tadaima!
I’m home!

おかえり!
Okaeri!
Welcome home!

お帰りなさい。今日は早かったですね。
Okaerinasai. Kyō wa hayakatta desu ne.
Welcome back. You’re early today.

 

The Grammar of お帰りなさい


polite or respectful prefix

帰り (kaeri)
return / returning; noun-like form of 帰る

なさい (nasai)
a polite directive form

お帰りなさい
Welcome back / You have returned

 

As with 行ってらっしゃい, a literal grammatical analysis can sound more commanding than the actual fixed greeting. In normal use, お帰りなさい warmly recognizes the person’s return.

Learner
Is おかえり literally “welcome home”?
Kodak
“Welcome home” is the best natural translation, but the Japanese expression is built around the person’s return. That is why it also works as “Welcome back” in places other than a private home.

 

The Complete Four-Phrase Cycle

Morning: leaving home

Child: 行ってきます!
I’m off!

Parent: 行ってらっしゃい。気をつけてね。
Have a good day. Take care.

Evening: returning home

Child: ただいま!
I’m home!

Parent: おかえり!
Welcome home!

 

Kodak

The two exchanges mirror each other:

行く → 来る
go → come back

外へ出る → 帰る
leave the shared place → return to it

The language keeps the shared place at the center of the conversation.

 

Pronunciation and Writing

行ってきます (Ittekimasu)

Kanji and kana: 行ってきます / 行って来ます
Hiragana: いってきます
Romaji: itte kimasu / ittekimasu
Mora: い・っ・て・き・ま・す

The small creates a brief pause before . Do not pronounce it as ite-kimasu.

行ってらっしゃい (Itterasshai)

Kanji and kana: 行ってらっしゃい
Hiragana: いってらっしゃい
Romaji: itterasshai
Mora: い・っ・て・ら・っ・しゃ・い

There are two small- pauses. The しゃい portion should not become the English word “shy.”

ただいま (Tadaima)

Normal greeting: ただいま
Kanji form: 只今
Romaji: tadaima
Mora: た・だ・い・ま

Pronounce だい as two morae, da-i, rather than compressing it into one English-style syllable.

おかえり / お帰りなさい (Okaeri / Okaerinasai)

Kanji and kana: お帰り / お帰りなさい
Hiragana: おかえり / おかえりなさい
Romaji: okaeri / okaerinasai
Mora: お・か・え・り / お・か・え・り・な・さ・い

The vowel sequence かえ (ka-e) contains separate morae. Do not pronounce okaeri as if it rhymed with the English word “airy.”

 

Casual and Polite Forms

FunctionCasual / standardMore polite or formal
Leaving行ってきます行ってまいります
Seeing someone off行ってらっしゃい行ってらっしゃいませ
Returningただいまただいま戻りました
Welcoming backおかえりお帰りなさい

 

行ってまいります

参ります is a humble form connected to 行く and 来る. 行ってまいります is more formal than 行ってきます.

それでは、取引先へ行ってまいります。
Sore dewa, torihikisaki e itte mairimasu.
Well then, I’m off to visit the client.

ただいま戻りました

In a workplace, simply calling out ただいま! may be too home-like depending on the office culture. ただいま戻りました clearly and politely reports your return.

ただいま戻りました。
Tadaima modorimashita.
I have returned.

 

Are These Expressions Only Used at Home?

No. Home is the clearest and most common setting, but the underlying idea is a shared base.

At Work

An employee temporarily leaving the office may say:

銀行へ行ってきます。
Ginkō e itte kimasu.
I’m going to the bank and will be back.

A coworker may reply:

行ってらっしゃい。
Itterasshai.
See you / Take care.

On returning:

ただいま戻りました。
Tadaima modorimashita.
I’m back.

お帰りなさい。
Okaerinasai.
Welcome back.

At a Club, Team, or Shared Residence

People who share a regular base—such as a dormitory, clubroom, team facility, or host family’s home—may use the same exchanges naturally.

Online Communities and Livestreams

In informal online communities, viewers sometimes use:

いってらっしゃい
to someone temporarily leaving the chatただいま
when that person returns

おかえり
to welcome the returning person

This playful extension treats the online community like a shared place.

 

When Should You Not Say 行ってきます?

Use 行ってきます when the current location functions as a base and your departure is temporary.

Natural:
Leaving home for school
Leaving the office for an errand
Leaving a clubroom and planning to returnUsually unnecessary:
Leaving a shop as a customer
Leaving a restaurant after eating
Saying farewell at the end of a long trip when you are not returning to that shared place
Leaving a stranger after a brief interaction

In those situations, use an expression that fits the relationship, such as ありがとうございます, ごちそうさまでした, 失礼します, またね, or さようなら.

 

Can You Say ただいま When Nobody Is Home?

Yes. Some people say it from habit even if nobody answers, while others do not. The greeting normally expects someone or something that represents “home,” but its use is personal.

In fiction, a character may say ただいま to an empty house, a photograph, a pet, or a place they have returned to after many years. In those cases, the phrase can carry strong emotional meaning.

十年ぶりだね。ただいま。
Jūnen-buri da ne. Tadaima.
It’s been ten years. I’m home.

 

Can You Say おかえり to Someone Who Did Not Say ただいま?

Yes. The expressions commonly form a pair, but one does not grammatically require the other.

あ、おかえり。今日は遅かったね。
A, okaeri. Kyō wa osokatta ne.
Oh, welcome back. You were late today.

You can greet the person as soon as you notice their return, even if they entered quietly.

 

行ってきます / 行ってらっしゃい vs Goodbye Expressions

These phrases are not general replacements for every “goodbye.” They specifically frame a temporary departure and expected return.

行ってきます / 行ってらっしゃい
Temporary departure from a shared baseまたね / じゃあね
Casual farewell between familiar people

さようなら
Complete or potentially more formal farewell

お先に失礼します
Leaving work before others

失礼します
Politely leaving a room, meeting, office, or formal interaction

For related expressions, see:

 

ただいま / おかえり vs “Hello”

ただいま and おかえり acknowledge a return, not simply a meeting.

こんにちは
Hello / good afternoon
⇒ General meeting greetingただいま
I’m back
⇒ Said by the returning person

おかえり
Welcome back
⇒ Said by the person receiving the return

Saying こんにちは to a family member who has just returned home may sound strangely detached because it ignores the departure-and-return relationship.

 

How These Expressions Are Used in Anime and Manga

These greetings often carry emotional meaning in stories because they represent belonging and the expectation of return.

行ってきます!
I’m off!
⇒ An ordinary departure, but it can become dramatic if the character may not return.絶対、帰ってきてね。行ってらっしゃい。
Come back no matter what. Take care.
⇒ The normal greeting becomes a promise or prayer.

ただいま。
I’m home.
⇒ Can mark a long-awaited return or emotional acceptance of a place as home.

おかえり。
Welcome home.
⇒ Can show that the returning character is accepted and belongs there.

 

Learner
Why does a simple おかえり sometimes feel so emotional in anime?
Kodak
Because it does more than announce arrival. It recognizes that the person has a place to return to. When a story is about loneliness, family, exile, or reconciliation, “Welcome back” can also mean “You still belong here.”

 

Natural Example Dialogues

Situation 1: Leaving for school

Child: 行ってきます!
Ittekimasu!
I’m off!

Parent: 行ってらっしゃい。忘れ物ない?
Itterasshai. Wasuremono nai?
Have a good day. Did you forget anything?

⇒ The child leaves the family home and is expected to return.

 

Situation 2: Returning from school

Child: ただいま!
Tadaima!
I’m home!

Parent: おかえり。今日どうだった?
Okaeri. Kyō dō datta?
Welcome home. How was your day?

⇒ The return completes the morning exchange.

 

Situation 3: A short office errand

Employee A: 郵便局へ行ってきます。
Yūbinkyoku e itte kimasu.
I’m going to the post office and will be back.

Employee B: 行ってらっしゃい。
Itterasshai.
See you / Take care.

⇒ The office functions as the shared base.

 

Situation 4: Returning to the office

Employee A: ただいま戻りました。
Tadaima modorimashita.
I’m back.

Employee B: お帰りなさい。
Okaerinasai.
Welcome back.

⇒ The fuller forms fit a workplace better.

 

Situation 5: A long emotional return

A: ただいま。
Tadaima.
I’m home.

B: ……おかえり。ずっと待ってたよ。
…Okaeri. Zutto matteta yo.
…Welcome home. I’ve been waiting for you.

⇒ The ordinary household exchange can express reconciliation, relief, and belonging.

 

Common Mistakes

Mistake 1: Translating 行ってきます as Only “I Will Go”

The phrase contains the idea of returning. Use 行きます when you only need to state that you will go somewhere.

Mistake 2: Saying 行ってきます When Leaving Any Place

It is not a universal goodbye. The current location should normally be a shared base to which you expect to return.

Mistake 3: Replying to 行ってきます with おかえり

Departure:
行ってきます ⇔ 行ってらっしゃいReturn:
ただいま ⇔ おかえり

Mistake 4: Believing ただいま Always Means “I’m Home”

It can also mean “now,” “just now,” or “immediately.” Check the situation and surrounding grammar.

Mistake 5: Using おかえり for a First-Time Visitor

おかえり welcomes someone who has returned. Use いらっしゃい or ようこそ for a visitor arriving for the first time.

Returning family member:
おかえり。
Welcome home.Guest arriving at your house:
いらっしゃい。
Welcome / Come in.

Formal welcome:
ようこそ。
Welcome.

Mistake 6: Using Casual Forms with Everyone

おかえり is casual. Use お帰りなさい when more politeness is appropriate. At work, ただいま戻りました may fit better than the household-style ただいま.

 

FAQ About Ittekimasu, Itterasshai, Tadaima, and Okaeri

What does ittekimasu mean?

行ってきます means “I’m off” or “I’m going out and will come back.” It is said by the person leaving a home or shared base.

What is the literal meaning of ittekimasu?

It combines 行って, “go and,” with 来ます, “come.” The literal movement is “I will go and come back.”

What should I reply to ittekimasu?

The standard reply is 行ってらっしゃい. You can add 気をつけてね, meaning “Take care.”

What does itterasshai mean?

行ってらっしゃい is a send-off meaning “Take care,” “Have a good day,” or “Go safely and come back.”

Is itterasshai formal?

It is polite enough for many ordinary relationships. 行ってらっしゃいませ is a more formal form, though it is less common in everyday household conversation.

What does tadaima mean?

As a return greeting, ただいま means “I’m home” or “I’m back.” In other contexts it can mean “now,” “just now,” or “immediately.”

Why does tadaima mean “I’m home”?

It is understood as a shortened form of ただいま帰りました, meaning “I have just returned.”

What should I reply to tadaima?

Reply with おかえり casually or お帰りなさい more politely.

What does okaeri mean?

おかえり means “Welcome home” or “Welcome back.” It recognizes that someone has returned to a familiar shared place.

What is the difference between okaeri and okaerinasai?

おかえり is casual and warm. お帰りなさい is the fuller and more polite form.

Can I say okaeri to a friend?

Yes, when the friend is returning to a place that functions as a shared base, such as your home, a clubroom, a shared trip location, or sometimes an online community.

Can I say tadaima at work?

Depending on the workplace, yes, but ただいま戻りました is clearer and more professional.

Are these phrases only used by families?

No. They can also be used among housemates, at some workplaces, in clubs, in dormitories, with host families, and playfully in online communities.

Can I say ittekimasu if I will not return?

Normally, the phrase implies a return to the current base. For a permanent or long final departure, choose a different farewell suited to the situation.

What is the difference between ittekimasu and sayonara?

行ってきます frames the departure as temporary and includes an expected return. さようなら is a general farewell and does not itself promise a return.

Why are tadaima and okaeri emotional in anime?

They represent more than arrival. They can show that a person has a place, family, or community to return to and is accepted there.

 

Summary: The Meaning of the Four Japanese Home Greetings

● 行ってきます (ittekimasu)
Said by the person leaving.
Meaning: I’m off / I’ll go and come back.● 行ってらっしゃい (itterasshai)
Said by the person staying.
Meaning: Take care / Go safely and come back.

● ただいま (tadaima)
Said by the person returning.
Meaning: I’m home / I’m back.
Origin: shortened from ただいま帰りました.

● おかえり / お帰りなさい (okaeri / okaerinasai)
Said by the person welcoming them back.
Meaning: Welcome home / Welcome back.

● Core image
A person leaves a shared place, remains connected to it, and returns to it.

 

Kodak

Remember the whole journey:

行ってきます
“I’ll go and come back.”

行ってらっしゃい
“Go safely.”

ただいま
“I’m back now.”

おかえり
“You have returned to us.”

Once you learn the four phrases as one cycle, their meaning and usage become much easier to remember!

 

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